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This Is Us – Katie Girls (3×03)

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Origin stories are my favorite.

This Is Us is exceptional at delivering multiple timelines that somehow all fit into one big puzzle piece.

This season is much more lighthearted than the previous one as we dig into Rebeccas life before Jack, their first meeting, and how their relationship almost didn’t happen, but it still manages to pull at the heartstrings and bring out a few happy tears.

I know the season just started but this episode had all the heart and soul in it so it’s at the top of my favorites list.

Seeing how Rebecca and Jack’s love story unfolded and realizing that if she didn’t trust her gut feeling, none of the Big Three would have existed is such, is crucial. There really is a plan for all of us.

Rebecca almost fell back into a past life with Alan but we’re all so glad she jumped into a pile of uncertainty with the man who had respect for his mom, had simple dreams, and cleaned up the dishes. Or in other words, a real-life Superman.

Yes, we’re all a bit biased so Alan never stood a chance, however, despite appearing to be a very “woke” man who would have allowed Rebecca to follow her dreams, there was still a part of him that was controlling; he wasn’t completely accepting on her wild nature.

And the fact that his mother also picked up on Rebecca not being sold and even encouraged her to follow her heart speaks volumes. Mothers, they just know things.

I mentioned that This Is Us does really well when it comes to multiple timelines and somehow, they were even able to delve into Rebecca’s childhood.

Nothing about seeing her mother wait on her father’s every need appealed to Rebecca as a child so when she became a teenager she wasn’t really interested in classes focused on making her into a housewife.

Simply seeing the expectations for women back in the day sends a shiver down my spine and makes me feel really blessed that although we haven’t reached full equality, women have a lot more say and a lot more pull nowadays. Not once have I ever been discouraged from following my dreams and that just means I’ve been surrounded by some really phenomenal people in my life.

Rebecca’s family and the way she raised her children is completely different than the atmosphere she grew up in so it’s not surprising that her mother always had so much to say and was always displeased with the Pearson clan.

Much like Rebecca, Jack knew that he didn’t want the kind of home life he grew up in. Specifically, an emotionally abusive father who expected his wife to do everything for him and felt entitled to throw a sandwich with too many pickles onto the ground and demand that she make a new one.

Throughout that whole scene, I found myself internally screaming “hell no,” while simultaneously cheering on Superman Jack.

Could he be any hotter than when he stood up to his father and became overly protective of his mother? Nope, no he could not.

I will always be a sucker for a man who loves and respects his mother.

Everything about Jack and Rebecca’s beginnings right down to the scene in the grocery store and then when she wanted to say hello to his mother was goals. It just felt right.

In the present, Kate was gearing up for her invasive surgery to see if IVF would take.

Understandably, everyone was a bit nervous considering her weight made things a bit more complicated than for the average person.

Randall was way out of line coming at her about the decision to go through a risky procedure rather than adopt.

Kate has always been his number one champion and never said anything against adoption, however, as a woman who one day wants kids of my own, I understand that need.

I know Randall didn’t mean it in this way, but I couldn’t help but think that this was another instance of a man telling a woman how she should feel and what she should want.

If Kate and Toby exhausted all their options in terms of having children of their own, they would most likely turn to adoption.

And even if they do have a biological child, there is nothing stopping them from adopting later on in life either.

The point is that everyone’s choice — the choice to adopt, the choice to pay for invitro — is valid.

Though I’ll agree that Kate can become overbearing at times, in this instance, I’m glad she stood her ground and made it clear to Randall that she’s made up her mind and there’s absolutely no reason she should defend that decision.

Randall obviously came around because he realized he was out of line when he should have been supportive and flew across the country to be there for her while she underwent the procedure.

Beth’s lines about having a group chat with Miguel and Toby and being shocked that Miguel is always on the money with his analysis of the Big Three was hilarious.

As Katie girl was put under anesthesia, she a dreamlike state in which all three Kate’s came face-to-face.

The youngest Kate was naive and wanted to know if she’d marry some actor while the teenage Kate was cynical and did her best to convince adult Kate that she wasn’t ready to have a baby.

Despite teenage Kate’s best efforts to keep adult Kate trapped in her “happy place” aka a subconscious ice cream parlor with her mini-me’s and dad himself, Kate had a feeling she was going to become a mother.

“I have to go,” she told Jack to which he replied, “I know.”

As great as it was to see all versions of Kate act alongside each other, it was really special to see adult Kate in the same scene as Jack.

And he still called her Katie girl.

When she woke up, Toby was still cracking jokes and the doctor informed her that they were able to secure eight eggs.

I have a good feeling about this — eight chances for a little Toby-Kate baby! There has to be a positive and happy outcome on the horizon for her, there just has to be!

Beth’s good mood didn’t hold up because she was fired halfway into the episode and found herself struggling with no longer being the bass.

It’s so upsetting how companies treat loyal employees after they’ve devoted so much time to them. You could tell the boss regretted the decision but you know budgets and all.

When Randall prematurely returned from the trip and was wired about running against Councilman Brown, she had to put herself first and crush his dreams.

You know, I should have picked up on that storyline, but I was completely taken aback by Randall’s decision to fix things himself.

Kevin was right about one thing — since his father died, they have all fought really hard to keep his legacy alive and find new ways to feel close to him.

Randall came upon the decision to run because his father wouldn’t just sit around and do nothing.

Kevin was proud of his new status as a full-fledged movie star, but that excitement quickly disappeared when he realized during an interview that he knew nothing about his father’s time in Vietnam.

It’s the perfect segway into introducing Jack’s war story to the audience and circles back to the season 2 finale scene where we saw Kevin and Zoe on a plane to Vietnam.

I can’t wait to tackle this storyline, although I know it will make me cry almost as much as the revelation of Jack’s death.

Kevin also contacted one of Jack’s original war buddies, Mr. Robinson, who was surprised to receive mail from “Jack Pearson’s son.”

I’m going to go out on a limb and say that hearing Jack’s story through Robinson is going to stir up plenty of raw emotions.

Are you ready to tackle that storyline?

What was your favorite part of the episode?

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This Is Us – Her (3×18)

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This Is US Her Season 3 finale review

Rebecca’s the engine that keeps the family running and losing her is going to be a total loss.

But it was bound to happen right?

It’s the natural order of things.

The episode finally revealed the identity of the ‘her’ everyone was referring to in the future, and though I expected it to be a sickly Rebecca based on how heavy the moment was for Randall, Tess and Toby, it was still heartbreaking to watch.

I’ll tackle the hardest moment of the episode first to get it out of the way mainly so I can finally stop balling my eyes out.

Everyone gathered at Kevin’s HUGE house to seemingly say their goodbye’s to Rebecca.

The scene with a young Randall walking through the hospital halls to visit his mother who was in a car accident mirrored him in the future walking to see his bed-ridden and very old mother possibly on her death bed.

She appears to be senile as Randall reminds his mother who he is.

The surprising part is that the ‘he’ Randall inquires about isn’t Miguel, it’s Nicky Pearson, Jack’s mystery and presumed dead brother.

Does this mean Miguel has already passed?

Has Nicky developed a close bond with the family since their original meeting?

It was obvious that the emotional bulk of this episode was going to surround Rebecca as both the past and the present storylines dealt with how much the Pearson kids and later adults loved and needed her.

At some point, we were going to have to address that she wouldn’t live forever despite being super mom, right?

However, I don’t think I’m ready to bury another Pearson just yet. I’m still not over Jack’s death.

The brief future scenes answered some other lingering questions.

In the present, Kevin and Zoe realized they couldn’t get past the issue of having children. Kevin chose Zoe with the hope that like his mother, she’d change her mind about having kids.

Zoe eventually realized it and the two broke up when she made it clear, again, that she will never change her stance on this.

One thing that didn’t sit well with me was how blatantly transparent Kevin and Zoe’s babysitting scenes were to further their own children storyline.

Obviously, Kevin would be a great dad. He grew up with one of the greatest, and he’s been through enough to give Tess sound advice about finding herself despite never going through what she was going through.

But simply because they were doing well with his brother’s kids doesn’t negate Zoe’s feelings or beliefs about kids.

It irritated me that Kevin even thought they would. He clearly didn’t take Zoe seriously, and I’m glad she stood her ground.

Breakups always suck, and this one stung because they were a genuinely good couple, but it was necessary for both of them to grow.

The flash-forward revealed that Zoe was right; Kevin had a son, though the mother remains a mystery. Do you think it could be Sophie? That would be something, wouldn’t it?

Oh, and did I mention Kevin has a ginormous house?

Beth and Randall finally got a chance to breathe after all the marital woes they’ve been experiencing as of late concerning their passions.

Randall was reminded about how lucky he’s been to win the lotto — adoption and Beth — with a very compelling speech from Deja.

She’s learned a thing or two from Randall!

Her personal account of living with terrible parents was truly heartbreaking. It’s easy to forget how much Deja has gone through now that he foster home problems aren’t at the forefront and she’s accustomed to living with the Pearson’s, but it’s sweet that she still knows where she came from and appreciates where she’s at.

Meanwhile, Beth realized that while her dream is to teach dance, she’s not doing it the way she wants by working for herself.

Both of them were willing to compromise, with Randall even assuring Beth he’d resign because his dreams were unrealistic.

But, alas, Beth had a better plan and one viewers have been suggesting all along: they’d move to Philadelphia and she’d open up her own dance studio.

When Beth mentioned the dance studio, I breathed a sigh of relief because I knew that was a good sign for their future.

In the future flash-forwards, we knew Beth had her own place, but we also thought it meant she and Randall had divorced.

Similarly, when future Randall said ‘hey baby’ to Beth, I burst out crying. They survived everything thrown at them and came out stronger!

Though I really did think the lavish house was going to be there’s!

One couple that’s not doing so well is Kate and Toby.

In the present, the two are doing just fine as they wait to take a premie Jack from the hospital.

He’s learning to breathe on his own but needs a little nudge in the right direction from time to time.

Understandably, it’s a very tense time for Kate as she worries about her child surviving and becoming a good parent, but her behavior towards Rebecca, per usual, was annoying.

Kate’s little fit about her mother overstepping drove me to yell at the TV. Why is she always so ungrateful?

Nerves are nerves, but Rebecca took charge, took notes, and saved baby Jack’s life. Not to mention she was just trying to be there for Kate during this tough time.

Kate eventually realized the error of her ways and apologized for overreacting in advance, which was cute.

I know it’s her insecurities getting the best of her, but Rebecca doesn’t deserve any of it. I’m over how she continuously acts terribly towards her own mother.

Rebecca is an angel for being so cool, calm and collected all the time.

Seeing her acknowledge that living up to her mother and that effortless Rebecca-magic was going to be hard was probably the sweetest moment we’ve ever seen between the two.

Rebecca is an angel for being so cool, calm and collected all the time.

In the future, Kate and Toby aren’t together, which is explains why he was hesitant on coming to the Pearson gathering and said ‘she’ wouldn’t want him there.

Marriages are tough and go through many different phases so there could be a plethora of reasons that lead to their divorce.

We’ll have to tune in to This Is Us Season 4 to find out.

Kate and Jack, who isn’t a baby anymore, were on their way to Kevin’s house. It’s a silver lining that at least their miracle baby survived!

We’ll get more involved with this future storyline as next season progresses, but I have to say, I can’t wait to see what older Kate and Kevin look like.

They truly nailed Beth and Randall, not to mention the spot-on casting for older Tess!

Overall, This Is Us Season 3 had it’s better and worse moments.

The delivery of timelines and mysteries has begun feeling slightly manipulative. Maybe it’s always been this way and we were just too impressed with Jack’s charm to notice, but this episode, in particular, showed exactly how contrived the storylines have become.

It wouldn’t even be possible to predict anything in this series because memories are created simply to align with the story the writers are trying to tell in the present and future.

Still, there’s an emotional depth with this finale that the series hasn’t had since Jack’s passing.

Rebecca has had a spark, spunk and light about her that has carried this show during the good times and the bad, and also gifted us with these incredible humans.

Saying goodbye to her probably won’t happen immediately when the series picks back up, but it’s unavoidable.

What did you think of the This Is Us Season 3 finale?

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This Is Us – R&B (3×17)

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Beth and Randall’s fight on “R&B” was long overdue. The tension bubbling right on the surface came to a major head, and it’s unclear if there’s a way to bounce back from this.

In my heart, in my ‘Beth and Randall are forever’ hearts, I believe this fight is normal, healthy even, and that they will bounce back stronger than ever.

Much like Randall, I’m also a woman with anxiety and realize that too much has been said, lines have been crossed, that may make this a definite turning point and irreversible.

My mind keeps going back to that flash-forward in This Is Us Season 2 in which we saw future Beth and Randall on bad terms. It wasn’t clear if they were divorced, but their relationship didn’t evoke the same passion and happiness as the earlier days.

This Is Us has crafted two of TV’s most perfect couples in Jack and Rebecca and Beth and Randall.

We idolize them because they’ve figured out this whole marriage thing and make it seem effortless.

But they’ve also peeled back the layers to reveal that no marriage is perfect.

Marriage is fickle; it’s a teeter-totter where one person is always slightly above the other. One person is always giving more while the other one is giving up more.

And when that teeter-totter doesn’t ever find balance, things start to crumble.

The explosive episode of This Is Us took us on a journey through Beth and Randall’s life together right down to their first date.

As expected, Randall planned the perfect date at a nice fancy restaurant with a nice suit and tie, but Beth wasn’t impressed.

I was a little thrown by how much attitude Beth was serving Randall who was a perfect gentleman and clearly smitten with her.

Looking back at their whole relationship, it was just Beth’s skepticism which has carried throughout her whole life.

She didn’t want to become her husband’s shadow, she didn’t want to get lost in his orbit, or become less than, and that’s understandable.

But then, that’s exactly what happened. At least, according to her.

As their fight wages on and surprisingly doesn’t wake any of their children — how soundproof are their walls? — Beth has an epiphany that she’s always been the one bending over backward by giving up her job to raise the kids, working overtime when he quit his job and embracing his wild dreams as her own.

Never has it been about her.

And on some level, I can see it. Randall is a lot to handle and he does consume you.

But, she also knew that going in.

Randall doesn’t see any of the flags Beth does because he’s always tried to be the best person he could be to his queen.

He thought he loved her enough to give her the love, life and respect he thought she deserved.

I’ll agree that Randall made some pretty rash decisions in his heyday, but I don’t think he ever compromised Beth or asked her to give up a dream to achieve it.

My issue with this episode was that it felt like they were trying to insert moments of Beth losing herself during flashbacks that we’ve been present for and never witnessed this was a problem.

Did we ship Beth and Randall so hard that we were ignorant to what was happening or was it never made clear that Beth bent over for Randall so much that she’d eventually crack? It seemed forced simply for the sake of the storyline.

There’s no right or wrong solution here because well, they’ve both done what they thought was best.

Randall may have overstepped on This Is Us Season 3 Episode 16 after leaving Beth a rather belittling voicemail when he thought she didn’t have his back so it was fair that Beth wanted her issues to be heard first.

But eventually, Beth overstepped by calling out Randall’s panic attacks, which was a low blow and sent him back all the way to Philly.

Randall has generally been cool, calm and collected, so for him to exit because he couldn’t be around Beth was really telling.

Who knows what will happen between these two now that they’ve finally talked it out honestly, something Randall believed they’d been doing throughout most of their relationship.

Is it Randall’s fault that Beth bottled up and repressed all these emotions? Maybe if she’d been more honest about what she wanted instead of trying to appease Randall they wouldn’t be in this mess.

Should Randall have assumed Beth would always be his ride or die? Maybe he should have asked her if she’s genuinely happy in her life or seen some of the warning signs like when she secretly booked a hotel to get away for 24-hours?

The episode had the potential for being really depressing giving the explosive nature but the sweet moments held it all together.

Susan Kelechi Watson and Sterling K. Brown delivered powerful performances that, in true This Is Us fashion, made us cry and laugh at the same time. Even the younger versions of themselves did a good job.

Seeing Beth and Randall’s first date, their proposal, their wedding day, and how tired they were after having their first baby not only strengthened them in my eyes but proved that they are just like any other normal couple with ups and downs, good moments and bad ones.

Much like Jack and Rebecca, Beth and Randall’s relationship has balance romance with realism.

In fact, Randall is a lot like Jack. Their fight even reminded Randall of the only true fight Jack and Rebecca had which coincidentally was about Rebecca feeling like she’d lost a part of herself and that she couldn’t have a career.

Maybe Rebecca and Beth have to sit down and have another heart-to-heart. Rebecca has always admired Beth and seeing her praise her for not being a “wallflower” only contributed to Beth being “the one” for Randall.

So yes, the fight was bad. Things got ugly and people’s feelings were hurt.

But if you look at their vows and their whole journey together, you’ll see a couple who is better together despite any hiccups. They are a couple who has always figured it out. When they look at each other they see an eternity together, and they promised to work things out no matter what came their way.

Careers come and go but family and first loves, man, those are forever. Sacrifices will need to be made, but I believe they have what it takes.

I hope they may good on those vows because like I said, if Beth and Randall can’t make this thing called marriage work, who the hell can?

Other Thoughts

  • What is that thing on Kevin’s face? Get it off!
  • College Randall with his polo and khaki’s is everything.
  • Seeing William again was a pleasant surprise!

 

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This Is Us – Don’t Take My Sunshine Away (3×16)

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‘Don’t Take My Sunshine Away’ examines the Pearson’s happily ever after’s.

It’s normal for a mother to wonder if her children would one day grow up and be okay, but not all happy endings are necessarily happy.

Life is a struggle right now for the Pearson clan, and it seems things may only get worse for Beth and Randall before they get better. If they even get better.

A season of frustrations and subtle jabs between the once happy couple has built up to this very moment and it’s all fueled by a pretty massive misstep on Randall’s part.

Okay, it wasn’t just a misstep, Randall acted like a complete asshole while Beth, the strongest woman on the show, held it together for the sake of painting the perfect picture for the Councilman.

Real women don’t air out their problems in public. Beth was composed, almost too composed, and dutifully played the role of supporting wife, which made it evident that tensions were going to come to a head the moment they left the Councilman’s house.

Beth let him have it for belittling her and for once, it was nice to see Randall be held accountable. Much like Kevin, Randall always gets away with everything because he’s so inherently good. But that also means when he does mess up, it’s that much more noticeable.

He couldn’t just weasel his way out of this because what he’d said was “in the heat of the moment.”

However, neither Randall or Beth is right in their arguments.

Both of them want their dreams realized but neither of them wants to make the sacrifices for each other.

Almost immediately into his first day on the job, it dawned on Randall that he was in way over his head with his new position.

This office isn’t made for someone who has a family and needs to be home in time for dinner.

It’ll be interesting to see how this storyline plays out since the alternative to working together and as a team despite feeling the pressures is that they call it quits.

Juggling three daughters and careers without a significant other’s support seems more daunting than their current reality.

It’s also seriously upsetting because we’re talking about a couple who could always figure everything out. They were each other’s rocks. Are we really going to flush all that down the drain?

Also at a crossroads? Kevin.

He’s blindsided by Zoe’s admission that she doesn’t want to have children and is forced to make a major decision about their future together while also dealing with AA meetings and couples therapy.

Given Kevin’s recent struggle, dropping something so serious and life-altering on him doesn’t seem like the best course of action.

But surprisingly, Kevin deals with it pretty well.

He finds a sounding board in Sophie, his ex and once assumed ‘true love,’ who helps coax him into making the necessary decision: he chooses a life with Zoe over possibly having children one day.

While Kevin makes plans for his future, he also makes amends with his ex by sending her tickets to Billy Joel as a gift for her recent engagement.

If I didn’t know any better, I’d think This Is Us wrapped up a storyline with a little bow on it, but the fact that they decided to bring back Sophie solely to guide Kevin and inform us of her engagement makes me a bit skeptical.

There has to be a more complicated reasoning for their run-in, right?

Will Sophie realize she wants to be with Kevin? Will he want to be with her?

The middle-school dance narrative fell a little flat in my opinion. It didn’t serve much of a purpose other than to give us some needed Jack screentime, some cute moments with Jack and Rebecca, and a cloying moment where Jack talks about what would have happened if they’d both met in middle school.

The other part that stood out to me is how effectively manipulative Kevin was. Encouraging Sophie to participate in a toilet paper prank when she clearly doesn’t want to is so effortless on his part. The point is honed in when Zoe talks about Kevin’s ‘charm’ at getting everything he wants during therapy.

He chose Zoe over children, but there’s a possibility his decision could spiral into a complex story of manipulation. Maybe that’s what he secretly believes will happen because Sophie convinced him that he’ll “get what he wants.”

Zoe is very secure in her decision not to have children, so I hope Kevin would never try to change her mind by using her love for his as leverage.

Much like Sophie, I think Zoe is really good for Kevin, but their relationship could become problematic very quickly.

Jack commends Rebecca on how effortless raising the kids is to her because of her upbringing whereas his childhood was less conventional and thus, parenting has been a bit of a challenge.

This moment directly mirrors what Toby and Kate are going through during their sixth straight day in the NICU with a preemie baby Jack.

Kate’s bonding with her baby despite the circumstances by singing him songs and talking to him, but the same can’t be said for Toby who can’t see past the tubes when he looks at little Jack.

Toby works through his anxiety and fears with another father, Gavin, which is much more effective than unloading his fears onto Kate who is already terrified but remaining strong and brave in the face of adversity.

The realization that Toby and Kate are ‘lucky’ in their situation because other parents will never be able to take their babies home is painful.

Though the storyline is heavy, it’s well-executed and shines a light on storylines that are important yet rarely get portrayed on television. The inability bond with a child is familiar to many parents regardless if their children were born weeks in advance or right on time.

Other Thoughts

  • Poor Rebecca and Jack. They couldn’t even get a little naughty in the library without being spotted by their brainiac son.
  • Randall and Beth continuously complain about their overlapping schedules and echo wanting to save money, but then somehow have the ability to fly across the US on a whim and go to lavish dinners on weekdays. Who is watching their children? How can they afford that babysitter?
  • Where were all the other Pearsons? The former episode focused on all of them refusing to leave the waiting room but now, none of them barely mentioned Toby and Kate. Randall and Beth left almost immediately while Rebecca was nowhere to be found.
  • What’s wrong with Beth teaching solely on weekends while Randall brings in the bread during the weekdays? And why can’t she find a freelance gig when the girls are at school?

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