Rebecca’s the engine that keeps the family running and losing her is going to be a total loss.
But it was bound to happen right?
It’s the natural order of things.
The episode finally revealed the identity of the ‘her’ everyone was referring to in the future, and though I expected it to be a sickly Rebecca based on how heavy the moment was for Randall, Tess and Toby, it was still heartbreaking to watch.
I’ll tackle the hardest moment of the episode first to get it out of the way mainly so I can finally stop balling my eyes out.
Everyone gathered at Kevin’s HUGE house to seemingly say their goodbye’s to Rebecca.
The scene with a young Randall walking through the hospital halls to visit his mother who was in a car accident mirrored him in the future walking to see his bed-ridden and very old mother possibly on her death bed.
She appears to be senile as Randall reminds his mother who he is.
The surprising part is that the ‘he’ Randall inquires about isn’t Miguel, it’s Nicky Pearson, Jack’s mystery and presumed dead brother.
Does this mean Miguel has already passed?
Has Nicky developed a close bond with the family since their original meeting?
It was obvious that the emotional bulk of this episode was going to surround Rebecca as both the past and the present storylines dealt with how much the Pearson kids and later adults loved and needed her.
At some point, we were going to have to address that she wouldn’t live forever despite being super mom, right?
However, I don’t think I’m ready to bury another Pearson just yet. I’m still not over Jack’s death.
The brief future scenes answered some other lingering questions.
In the present, Kevin and Zoe realized they couldn’t get past the issue of having children. Kevin chose Zoe with the hope that like his mother, she’d change her mind about having kids.
Zoe eventually realized it and the two broke up when she made it clear, again, that she will never change her stance on this.
One thing that didn’t sit well with me was how blatantly transparent Kevin and Zoe’s babysitting scenes were to further their own children storyline.
Obviously, Kevin would be a great dad. He grew up with one of the greatest, and he’s been through enough to give Tess sound advice about finding herself despite never going through what she was going through.
But simply because they were doing well with his brother’s kids doesn’t negate Zoe’s feelings or beliefs about kids.
It irritated me that Kevin even thought they would. He clearly didn’t take Zoe seriously, and I’m glad she stood her ground.
Breakups always suck, and this one stung because they were a genuinely good couple, but it was necessary for both of them to grow.
The flash-forward revealed that Zoe was right; Kevin had a son, though the mother remains a mystery. Do you think it could be Sophie? That would be something, wouldn’t it?
Oh, and did I mention Kevin has a ginormous house?
Beth and Randall finally got a chance to breathe after all the marital woes they’ve been experiencing as of late concerning their passions.
Randall was reminded about how lucky he’s been to win the lotto — adoption and Beth — with a very compelling speech from Deja.
She’s learned a thing or two from Randall!
Her personal account of living with terrible parents was truly heartbreaking. It’s easy to forget how much Deja has gone through now that he foster home problems aren’t at the forefront and she’s accustomed to living with the Pearson’s, but it’s sweet that she still knows where she came from and appreciates where she’s at.
Meanwhile, Beth realized that while her dream is to teach dance, she’s not doing it the way she wants by working for herself.
Both of them were willing to compromise, with Randall even assuring Beth he’d resign because his dreams were unrealistic.
But, alas, Beth had a better plan and one viewers have been suggesting all along: they’d move to Philadelphia and she’d open up her own dance studio.
When Beth mentioned the dance studio, I breathed a sigh of relief because I knew that was a good sign for their future.
In the future flash-forwards, we knew Beth had her own place, but we also thought it meant she and Randall had divorced.
Similarly, when future Randall said ‘hey baby’ to Beth, I burst out crying. They survived everything thrown at them and came out stronger!
Though I really did think the lavish house was going to be there’s!
One couple that’s not doing so well is Kate and Toby.
In the present, the two are doing just fine as they wait to take a premie Jack from the hospital.
He’s learning to breathe on his own but needs a little nudge in the right direction from time to time.
Understandably, it’s a very tense time for Kate as she worries about her child surviving and becoming a good parent, but her behavior towards Rebecca, per usual, was annoying.
Kate’s little fit about her mother overstepping drove me to yell at the TV. Why is she always so ungrateful?
Nerves are nerves, but Rebecca took charge, took notes, and saved baby Jack’s life. Not to mention she was just trying to be there for Kate during this tough time.
Kate eventually realized the error of her ways and apologized for overreacting in advance, which was cute.
I know it’s her insecurities getting the best of her, but Rebecca doesn’t deserve any of it. I’m over how she continuously acts terribly towards her own mother.
Rebecca is an angel for being so cool, calm and collected all the time.
Seeing her acknowledge that living up to her mother and that effortless Rebecca-magic was going to be hard was probably the sweetest moment we’ve ever seen between the two.
Rebecca is an angel for being so cool, calm and collected all the time.
In the future, Kate and Toby aren’t together, which is explains why he was hesitant on coming to the Pearson gathering and said ‘she’ wouldn’t want him there.
Marriages are tough and go through many different phases so there could be a plethora of reasons that lead to their divorce.
We’ll have to tune in to This Is Us Season 4 to find out.
Kate and Jack, who isn’t a baby anymore, were on their way to Kevin’s house. It’s a silver lining that at least their miracle baby survived!
We’ll get more involved with this future storyline as next season progresses, but I have to say, I can’t wait to see what older Kate and Kevin look like.
They truly nailed Beth and Randall, not to mention the spot-on casting for older Tess!
Overall, This Is Us Season 3 had it’s better and worse moments.
The delivery of timelines and mysteries has begun feeling slightly manipulative. Maybe it’s always been this way and we were just too impressed with Jack’s charm to notice, but this episode, in particular, showed exactly how contrived the storylines have become.
It wouldn’t even be possible to predict anything in this series because memories are created simply to align with the story the writers are trying to tell in the present and future.
Still, there’s an emotional depth with this finale that the series hasn’t had since Jack’s passing.
Rebecca has had a spark, spunk and light about her that has carried this show during the good times and the bad, and also gifted us with these incredible humans.
Saying goodbye to her probably won’t happen immediately when the series picks back up, but it’s unavoidable.
What did you think of the This Is Us Season 3 finale?