Rebecca’s the engine that keeps the family running and losing her is going to be a total loss.
But it was bound to happen right?
It’s the natural order of things.
The episode finally revealed the identity of the ‘her’ everyone was referring to in the future, and though I expected it to be a sickly Rebecca based on how heavy the moment was for Randall, Tess and Toby, it was still heartbreaking to watch.
I’ll tackle the hardest moment of the episode first to get it out of the way mainly so I can finally stop balling my eyes out.
Everyone gathered at Kevin’s HUGE house to seemingly say their goodbye’s to Rebecca.
The scene with a young Randall walking through the hospital halls to visit his mother who was in a car accident mirrored him in the future walking to see his bed-ridden and very old mother possibly on her death bed.
She appears to be senile as Randall reminds his mother who he is.
The surprising part is that the ‘he’ Randall inquires about isn’t Miguel, it’s Nicky Pearson, Jack’s mystery and presumed dead brother.
Does this mean Miguel has already passed?
Has Nicky developed a close bond with the family since their original meeting?
It was obvious that the emotional bulk of this episode was going to surround Rebecca as both the past and the present storylines dealt with how much the Pearson kids and later adults loved and needed her.
At some point, we were going to have to address that she wouldn’t live forever despite being super mom, right?
However, I don’t think I’m ready to bury another Pearson just yet. I’m still not over Jack’s death.
The brief future scenes answered some other lingering questions.
In the present, Kevin and Zoe realized they couldn’t get past the issue of having children. Kevin chose Zoe with the hope that like his mother, she’d change her mind about having kids.
Zoe eventually realized it and the two broke up when she made it clear, again, that she will never change her stance on this.
One thing that didn’t sit well with me was how blatantly transparent Kevin and Zoe’s babysitting scenes were to further their own children storyline.
Obviously, Kevin would be a great dad. He grew up with one of the greatest, and he’s been through enough to give Tess sound advice about finding herself despite never going through what she was going through.
But simply because they were doing well with his brother’s kids doesn’t negate Zoe’s feelings or beliefs about kids.
It irritated me that Kevin even thought they would. He clearly didn’t take Zoe seriously, and I’m glad she stood her ground.
Breakups always suck, and this one stung because they were a genuinely good couple, but it was necessary for both of them to grow.
The flash-forward revealed that Zoe was right; Kevin had a son, though the mother remains a mystery. Do you think it could be Sophie? That would be something, wouldn’t it?
Oh, and did I mention Kevin has a ginormous house?
Beth and Randall finally got a chance to breathe after all the marital woes they’ve been experiencing as of late concerning their passions.
Randall was reminded about how lucky he’s been to win the lotto — adoption and Beth — with a very compelling speech from Deja.
She’s learned a thing or two from Randall!
Her personal account of living with terrible parents was truly heartbreaking. It’s easy to forget how much Deja has gone through now that he foster home problems aren’t at the forefront and she’s accustomed to living with the Pearson’s, but it’s sweet that she still knows where she came from and appreciates where she’s at.
Meanwhile, Beth realized that while her dream is to teach dance, she’s not doing it the way she wants by working for herself.
Both of them were willing to compromise, with Randall even assuring Beth he’d resign because his dreams were unrealistic.
But, alas, Beth had a better plan and one viewers have been suggesting all along: they’d move to Philadelphia and she’d open up her own dance studio.
When Beth mentioned the dance studio, I breathed a sigh of relief because I knew that was a good sign for their future.
In the future flash-forwards, we knew Beth had her own place, but we also thought it meant she and Randall had divorced.
Similarly, when future Randall said ‘hey baby’ to Beth, I burst out crying. They survived everything thrown at them and came out stronger!
Though I really did think the lavish house was going to be there’s!
One couple that’s not doing so well is Kate and Toby.
In the present, the two are doing just fine as they wait to take a premie Jack from the hospital.
He’s learning to breathe on his own but needs a little nudge in the right direction from time to time.
Understandably, it’s a very tense time for Kate as she worries about her child surviving and becoming a good parent, but her behavior towards Rebecca, per usual, was annoying.
Kate’s little fit about her mother overstepping drove me to yell at the TV. Why is she always so ungrateful?
Nerves are nerves, but Rebecca took charge, took notes, and saved baby Jack’s life. Not to mention she was just trying to be there for Kate during this tough time.
Kate eventually realized the error of her ways and apologized for overreacting in advance, which was cute.
I know it’s her insecurities getting the best of her, but Rebecca doesn’t deserve any of it. I’m over how she continuously acts terribly towards her own mother.
Rebecca is an angel for being so cool, calm and collected all the time.
Seeing her acknowledge that living up to her mother and that effortless Rebecca-magic was going to be hard was probably the sweetest moment we’ve ever seen between the two.
Rebecca is an angel for being so cool, calm and collected all the time.
In the future, Kate and Toby aren’t together, which is explains why he was hesitant on coming to the Pearson gathering and said ‘she’ wouldn’t want him there.
Marriages are tough and go through many different phases so there could be a plethora of reasons that lead to their divorce.
We’ll have to tune in to This Is Us Season 4 to find out.
Kate and Jack, who isn’t a baby anymore, were on their way to Kevin’s house. It’s a silver lining that at least their miracle baby survived!
We’ll get more involved with this future storyline as next season progresses, but I have to say, I can’t wait to see what older Kate and Kevin look like.
They truly nailed Beth and Randall, not to mention the spot-on casting for older Tess!
Overall, This Is Us Season 3 had it’s better and worse moments.
The delivery of timelines and mysteries has begun feeling slightly manipulative. Maybe it’s always been this way and we were just too impressed with Jack’s charm to notice, but this episode, in particular, showed exactly how contrived the storylines have become.
It wouldn’t even be possible to predict anything in this series because memories are created simply to align with the story the writers are trying to tell in the present and future.
Still, there’s an emotional depth with this finale that the series hasn’t had since Jack’s passing.
Rebecca has had a spark, spunk and light about her that has carried this show during the good times and the bad, and also gifted us with these incredible humans.
Saying goodbye to her probably won’t happen immediately when the series picks back up, but it’s unavoidable.
What did you think of the This Is Us Season 3 finale?
This Is Us Review – Childhood Traumas in the Present Day (5×04)
This Is Us delivered some truly great moments on “Honestly,” which is a good thing as this episode is supposed to hold us over until January 5, 2021.
It doesn’t seem fair that we had to wait almost all of 2020 for new episodes only to be given four and then forced to wait again, but maybe, like Kevin, we have to learn to tough it.
That’s what I’m telling myself anyway.
The Big Three continued to struggle with their past traumas that affected them into adulthood.
In the past, we see Rebecca and Jack struggling to sleep train Kevin, who wakes up crying every night. Jack assures Rebecca they have to let him cry it out, but she can’t fathom letting her child “suffer.”
Her behavior carries over into their pre-teen years as Kevin struggles with his team as the quarterback of the football team.
Rebecca isn’t a helicopter in the same way we see modern-day parents, but she’s definitely always ready to step in to make life easier for Kevin, which isn’t helping them or teaching him any grit.
But that’s the great thing we see in Kevin when he’s an adult. Instead of backing down when things get tough, he pushes even harder.
Seeing him use his notecards in the present — a method Randall taught him when he was younger and struggling to memorize plays — was heartwarming.
They may not be talking right now, but they’ve impacted each other’s lives in major ways.
Seeing Kevin navigate his own path to success also proves that sometimes, it’s okay to let your kids figure it out for themselves.
The director seemed to come into the reading with a preconceived notion about Kevin, which wasn’t fair to him. I’m wondering if he didn’t like Kevin’s performance or wasn’t pleased that Kevin was cast?
Either way, it’s fantastic that Kevin didn’t just give up or lose his temper. I hope he blows the director away.
And maybe this is the push to truly break out in his career with a performance that’s “less tired.”
Fingers-crossed he gets that Oscar-moment with Rebecca!
Randall saw himself in Malik, who was shadowing him in his City Council position for a school class.
Malik committed the biggest flub when he didn’t turn off the live stream and accidentally broadcast Randall’s striptease dance to everyone in Philly and beyond.
Note to self: always double-check a stream is off, especially with Zoom meetings.
The situation seemed rough initially, and Randall was pretty hard on Malik, a few good things came out of it.
First, Randall got to know Malik on a deeper level and realized that Deja’s boyfriend is a standup and ambitious kid.
Malik explained his tiredness by giving Randall the tea – he wakes up at 5 a.m. to take care of his daughter and puts her needs before his own.
That being said, he’s still trying to make something of himself as he wants to go to an Ivy League school, open up a restaurant and become the first Michelin-starred place in Philly.
You’ve got to admire the drive and the hustle in a young kid like that. He has his head on right, and Randall recognizes himself in Malik, which is why he gave him that internship even after the live stream flub.
This bromance may be the best thing to happen in 2020!
The other good thing to come out of it is that it’ll bring Randall closer to his birth mother… or at least his birth mother’s boyfriends/husband.
Going viral on the Internet meant that the Japanese man from This Is Us Season 5 Episode 3 saw the clip and heard Randall talk about his birth father William Hill.
The series is drawing this storyline out, but it seems like they’ve got big plans and it’ll be worth it.
There were moments when the series made it seem like she was still alive, but if she’s not, at least maybe Randall will be able to learn more about her by connecting with someone who knew her well.
Also, it’s great that Randall and his family have such a great sense of humor and can laugh about the whole ordeal. It’s even better that the angle of the camera was really great and Randall looked that good!
Kate’s adoption storyline took a somber note when she confronted her past demons and vocalized them to Toby for the first time ever.
The series circled-back to her tumultuous relationship with Mark and revealed some interesting things about their explosive breakup.
At first glance, it seems like Kate found out that she was pregnant with Mark’s baby and possibly aborted it.
However, upon closer inspection, in the scene, Kate is actually holding an ovulation test, which would indicate that she wanted a baby with Mark.
Obviously, that’s troublesome for many reasons considering Mark was toxic and treated her poorly.
Did she stay home from New York to try to get pregnant with him? Did she succeed?
Did she give the baby up for adoption? There are so many avenues the series can take here. My mind is spinning and jumping to the most outrageous conclusion that Ellie is Kate’s daughter.
If Kate hypothetically had a child at 18 and she’s now 40, that would mean Ellie would be around 22, so I don’t think my outlandish theory holds true because she seems significantly olderm but then again, they never confirmed Ellie’s age either. How crazy would that be?!
All of this makes watching Kate’s journey to motherhood that much more emotional. I can’t wait to see how the series ties it all together.
I’m also a bit peeved we haven’t seen the last of Mark because he was such a tool!
This Is Us continues pulling the rug right from under us. We may think we know these characters as well as we know ourselves, but there are still so many moments in their lives we’ve yet to explore.
Lastly, may we all have a Jack Pearson role model in our lives who wants us to know he sees our greatness. Even though Jack had his flaws, it’s moments like these where you truly appreciate all he’s done for the Pearson clan.
This Is Us Review – I’m Going Through Changes (5×03)
Parenting is hard.
That’s the key takeaway on This Is Us Season 5 Episode 3.
Even the best, most connected parents like Rebecca and Jack missed so many things when it came to Randall, Kevin, and Kate.
In the past, the scenes explore how moments in their childhood shaped who they are in the present-day.
In the present-day, we see the Big Three dealing with their own fears and struggling with parenthood.
Randall and Beth learn that Tess has been making mock videos online to stand up for herself. On one hand, Randall finds it admirable that his teen daughter has a better grasp of her self-identity than he does at the age of 40. However, he and Beth both agree that her actions need to be punished.
While it may not seem like it to Tess at the moment, there’s a way about evoking change and making a statement. Unfortunately, telling your teacher “screw you” on the Internet — where things live forever, is not the right way.
It’s an interesting moment, nevertheless, that allows the audience to get a deeper look into Tess’s teenage years.
It also proves that no matter how much parents try, children will carve out their own path, which is a lesson Kevin and Madison could use about now.
Their breakfast interactions were very, polite, for lack of a better word, and it was clear that they were both putting on a front to make this new-age engagement work.
But the truth is, neither of them was really being honest and upfront about who they were. They were tiptoeing around reality, which is no way to go about life.
Madison, who we know struggled with an eating disorder her whole life, was triggered by Kevin’s excessive working out, his rock hard abs that he puts fully on display, and the fact that he skipped breakfast and stated he would be going on a diet for his upcoming role.
For Madison, these were all reminders of her bulimia, but she couldn’t even blame Kevin for it because he didn’t know this side of her.
She also assumed that Kevin was behaving confidently when, in fact, these were all signs of Kevin’s own insecurities that he’s built up since he was a pre-teen hitting puberty.
Kevin has always put his worth in his looks, but that stems from his very own addictions and eating disorders.
It serves as a reminder not to judge a book by its cover because we never know what someone else is going through.
When Madison and Kevin began to open up, a true relationship and trust was established between them. Madison even confessed that she’s the type of girl who goes to conventions for her favorite TV show. The horror!
The truth is, Madison isn’t the kind of girl audiences would have envisioned for Kevin, but she’s exactly who he needs. And vice-versa. It’s nice to see them pull back the curtains and be real, especially Kevin, who has always lived up to this image he’s concocted in his own mind.
Kevin’s body image issues were also rooted in his daddy issues, and we learn that he’s been hitting the dingy garage gym because that’s where he bonded with Jack.
Jack tries to help his son bulk up for the school football team and takes him to the garage to “pump some iron” as his old man did. Unlike his dad, however, Jack tries to make the lifting session inspiring, but the effects seem to be one and the same.
On his quest for a therapist, Randall pinpoints a memory from his young adult life that may have shaped his future and sense of self.
It’s a rather cringe-worthy moment as Kate’s friend, Tanya, tries to make a move on Randall by puckering up with root beer flavored chapstick, which is only made worse when she utters this line when Randall refuses: “I always wondered what it would be like to kiss someone like you.”
Well, that’s a buzzkill.
It’ll be interesting to see Randall unpack that with the therapist, Vance, as it may have something to do with his decision to marry a strong, confident Black woman. After all, in his brief chat with the therapist, he went out of his way to emphasize that his wife was Black as if he had something to prove.
There’s always the thought that Vance is somehow related to Randall through his mother, especially as Randall points out that they’re “very similar” when talking to Beth. Introducing Vance’s daughter, April, could just be an innocent and cute moment, but we know that’s never the case with This Is Us.
Fans were scratching their heads with the interlude of a Vietnamese grandfather and granddaughter fishing. The scenes may have been frustrating as they were thrown in randomly throughout the episode, but again, nothing is ever random. In the final scene, the cute young girl Lin asks her grandfather if he cooks for the woman in all of the pictures to impress her. He nods and the camera pans to a photograph showing the grandfather with Randall’s mother!
It doesn’t give us much to work with, but it means that answers about Randall’s birth mother are coming — and yes, it seems like she survived.
Could this scene somehow be related to the scene with Vance? Time will tell.
Lastly, there was Kate and Toby, who met with a potential birth mother and hoped to make a good impression. It seemed like things went well with Ellie, despite their little squabble about diapers. I agree with Ellie that seeing how a couple bounces back from a fight is a good assessment of their marriage.
Through flashforwards, we know that Kate and Toby eventually adopt a daughter, but will it be Ellie’s daughter?
Or will she realize she wants to keep her child from a one-night stand? Also, leave it to This Is Us to make every single storyline heartbreaking, even Ellie’s backstory of why she’s giving up the child (her husband died of cancer, it took her a long time to move on, and when she finally agreed to a date, she had a fling and ended up pregnant).
What did you think of the episode?
Are you excited about the new possibilities for the Big Three?
Which storyline excites you most? Let us know in the comments below.
Is Randall’s Birth Mother His New Therapist on ‘This Is Us’ Season 5? Here’s What the Writers Said
For several seasons, Randall (Sterling K. Brown) has struggled navigating life as a Black man raised in a white family.
Tensions really escalated when he found out that his adoptive mother, Rebecca Pearson, had known his biological father, William, his entire life and kept him a secret despite knowing how much he wanted information on his biological family.
After years of dealing with identity and anxiety issues, Randall eventually went to therapy to deal with the stress brought on by his mother’s illness, his run for City Council, and the burglarization of his home.
There’s a stigma that follows seeking out therapy, especially when it comes to Black men, so Randall’s decision was bold and important.
It wasn’t easy at first to open up, but eventually, the therapist was able to break through his tough exterior. When This Is Us Season 5 premiered, Randall seemed in a much better place mentally — the tremors were gone! — as he continued virtual therapy amid the coronavirus pandemic.
He also dealt with racial relations brought on by yet another heinous murder of a Black man in America prompting protests known as the Black Lives Matter movement.
Important and difficult conversations were had with his family, specifically Kate, which led him to realize that he needed to change therapists.
While he initially made the conscious decision to pursue a therapist that was a white woman, just like adoptive mother, as he grew more secure in his identity, he realized he needed someone that he could fully open up with and not hide the “Black parts” from.
He needed a Black therapist.
Randall’s realization happens at the same time as the shocking twist that his biological mother, Laurel, (who audiences thought died shortly after birth due to an overdose) was actually resuscitated and likely survived.
This Is Us is such a meticulously planned show that the writers managed to weave in COVID and BLM into an episode so organically that it was impossible for the audience to tell when or how it was altered. It just fit.
So, there’s reason to believe that the timing of Randall’s decision and the reveal that his mother may be alive isn’t an accident.
What if his new therapist is his biological mother? It’s a popular theory and one that the This Is Us writers already debunked, but should we believe them?
She is not going to end up as Randall’s therapist. #ThisIsUs
— ThisIsUsWriters (@ThisIsUsWriters) October 28, 2020
It’s possible that she’s either too old to still be practicing or no longer alive.
However, that doesn’t mean Randall’s new therapist isn’t a long-lost brother or sister that he didn’t know about?
There has to be some connection.
Randall has always sought out answers about his biological family, who he is, and where he comes from. Even after meeting William and mending things with him, Randall continues to have a void because he never knew his biological mother. His “mommy issues” stem from the abandonment (which we now know wasn’t intentional as he was wanted) by his biological mom and the deception by his adoptive mother.
For a show centered around family and the importance of family, it would only make sense for them to pursue this avenue and allow Randall to further explore his background on a deeper level.
What do you think, Cravers? If Randall’s mom isn’t the therapist, how does this storyline play into Randall’s overall arc?
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