Four Thanksgiving timelines is a lot to keep up with, and since these are Pearson Thanksgiving’s, you know they’re eventful.
The Pearson clan must be in denial when they tell themselves that the holiday is going to be drama-free. It never is.
The one person who isn’t in denial about it is Beth. I love how real Beth is about what’s going down. Her side comments make me laugh as she’s been here long enough not to go in blindly; she knows what to expect.
I love the Pearsons more than anything, but they are an American family, which means they are complicated and complex.
Plus, it wouldn’t be the holidays without a few tears being shed.
In the past, those tears were all about Miguel as Rebecca found out that her closest confidant was planning a move to Houston.
It explains Marguerite’s “Houston we have a problem” comments throughout the night, but it really does not explain why she was so annoying and #basic. (Cue Anna Delvey: “Why are you so basic?”) I don’t care if Rebecca’s comments about her weren’t harmless or accidental, they were real.
At least Matt seemed like a decent dude, even if he was trying too hard and was also slightly a bore himself.
But the truth is, neither Marguerite nor Matt could hold a candle to the relationship that Rebecca and Miguel formed over the past two years as they leaned on each other for support.
Neither of them wanted to say it — especially Miguel after being scolded by a drunk Kevin — but there were some really intense feelings there.
You don’t just cry about a friend moving to a different state unless you love him.
Kevin was out of line, but that’s pretty much his M.O. The kids noticed immediately that the sparks were flying between mom and dead dad’s best friend, and they were pretty thrown by it.
Kevin assured Miguel that if Jack saw what was happening right now, he would’ve rolled over in his grave, but I just don’t agree with that. I personally think Jack would’ve been thrilled that the two people he loved most in this world, aside from his children, found happiness again with each other.
Jack would’ve wanted to know that someone was going to take care of Rebecca, and there’s no better man than Miguel. Sorry, Matt.
In the present day, the tears came from a very heartbreaking family meeting where an ailing Rebecca announced that should the time come, Miguel and only Miguel would have the final say on her care.
It makes sense considering that kind of decision would have fallen on Jack’s shoulders if he was still alive. You never want to push that kind of responsibility on your children.
And Miguel has been with Rebecca every step of the way.
I don’t know what’s more brutal — the shock of an untimely death or an illness that allows you to plan your own demise. Both are traumatic in their own way, but I have to admit I love that Rebecca found it in her to give some directives as to how she wants to see this pan out.
Encouraging her kids to continue living their lives and being fearless takes the pressure off of her — no mother wants to be the reason why their kids make themselves small. No mother wants their kids to change their lives so they can accommodate her. It shows just how much she loves all of them.
I was pretty shocked by her decision to appoint Kate as the decision-maker should anything happen to Miguel. Those two have always had a pretty fractured relationship, but it’s just a testament to the complex relationship between mothers and daughters.
It’s always been Kate despite all the terrible things she has said to the mother in the past. It’s a lesson that it’s never too late to make amends.
Speaking of complex mother-daughter bonds, in the past, Rebecca’s Thanksgiving with her parents and Jack was tense and portrayed their unhealthy relationship with food.
When Toby — in the present — informed Kate that being fat is in their genes, it stemmed all the way back to Rebecca’s thin mother encouraging her not to eat too much so that she would stay in shape. She went as far as to suggest that Rebecca “starve herself early on” while talking to her about her wedding.
Food disorders can affect all different shapes and sizes.
Rebecca fought against that mindset so that she wouldn’t pass it on to Kate, and though Kate’s relationship with food pretty much consumed her life, along with dieting and bingeing, she also didn’t want to pass that on to her children.
Toby made some valid points, but honestly, restricting what a child can eat will only contribute to the problem.
I love that those two are so mature that they can sit down and talk about the snide comments. And while there are always two sides to every story, Kate rebutted Toby’s “fat food” concerns by informing him that she has done her due diligence when it comes to feeding the children.
The very fact that he’s not aware of that is the core issue. Toby isn’t a deadbeat or absent father, but he’s also not present a lot of the time, and that matters. He’s supporting the family financially, but he’s not supporting them emotionally.
And honestly, if it were important to Toby — and he saw how much this was troubling Kate and how many problems it was causing — he would strive to find a job closer to home.
At some point, you have to admit that Toby values his career slightly more, and that’s telling.
We know they are on a crash course to divorce land, but it’s just so brutal seeing it pan out in real time while knowing the outcome. It’s a disaster you know is coming but you can’t stop or course-correct.
Miguel finally got some justice when Rebecca told the children that he was inquiring about guest bedrooms because she would need a staff to take care of her eventually.
Kevin jumped to the wrong conclusion because that’s what he does, but he finally acknowledged that Miguel has been a crucial part of their lives and deserves his respect. I get all warm and fuzzy inside knowing that Miguel and Kevin will be working on the house for Rebecca together.
Again, Jack would’ve loved this.
The Big Three have plenty of unresolved issues to work through in their personal lives, and the remaining 10 episodes will hopefully provide some closure to their individual chapters as the end of the series is in sight.
And surely, there won’t be a shortage of tears shed when all is said and done.
Because if there’s one thing This Is Us knows how to do, it is get us in our feels and remind us just how fragile and short this thing called life is.
What did you think of the episode? How do you envision the series ending? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
This Is Us Review – The Train (6×17)
There are some shows, some characters, and some families that come into your life and change everything.
Since its premiere, This Is Us has always been that show with those life-changing characters and families. Each episode has been an emotional tsunami that opened the flood gates and assured fans that it was okay — more than okay, actually — to feel all the feels and let out the tears.
The series sent waves when it introduced three timelines that all connected with each other, so the expectations have been high for the final few episodes, especially the penultimate episode that said goodbye to the matriarch, Rebecca Pearson.
Everyone always raves about what a great guy Jack Pearson is — and he was a terrific father albeit a flawed man — but no one ever gives Rebecca the credit she deserves.
The episode, which detailed Rebecca’s journey to the end, highlighted that Rebecca was really the glue that held it all together in the face of loss, heartache, and trauma. She endured so much so that, in their individual ways, her children could thrive. And she made sure that — until her very last breath — her children were taken care of in a way that only a mother can.
She held on for so long for them, and wow, she really deserved that rest.
When you think of death, you typically think of pain and suffering, which makes all the sense in the world. It’s hard not to. But This Is Us once again challenged those surface-level emotions by showcasing Rebecca’s death as a beautiful and natural process in this journey we call life.
The end doesn’t always have to be sad. It can be a celebration of a full life lived. Rebecca’s sure was.
Dan Fogelman and team brilliantly brought to life the quote: “It is said that your life flashes before your eyes just before you die.”
For Rebecca, that life was weaved in seamlessly through her journey to the caboose car on the train. Ever since she was a little child, Rebecca absolutely loved riding on the train with her father, so it was fitting that she took one last ride with a final destination in mind.
I mean, the writing was exceptional as it hit on every major and minor moment that meant anything to the series and these characters.
It was also a creative way to incorporate and celebrate all the people that shaped the show and made an impact on Rebecca’s life along the way.
William guided Rebecca on the journey with all of the wisdom that he collected throughout the years. Their stories have been connected since the moment he left Randall at the firehouse. He gave Rebecca the third child that completed her family, and so, it was fitting that he was the one to escort her in her final moments.
Dr. K made an appearance to commend Rebecca on truly living his advice about taking lemons and making lemonade to the fullest — she took everything that was thrown her way and she made the sweetest damn lemonade. She turned her life into this big, messy, gigantic, and spectacular thing.
And when her life flashed before her eyes, the pain was overshadowed by the love and the light.
Obviously, at the forefront were her three children, the Big Three — Randall, Kevin, and Kate — but there was also the incredible family that they all built. There were grandchildren, great grandchildren (well, in the making), wives, husbands, ex-husbands, baby mommas, everyone together as one unit. The love that Rebecca gave her children was extended to every single new “Pearson.”
The house wasn’t empty in her final days — it was filled with people who loved and cared for Rebecca in many different ways, including people who learned from her over the years and found her to be a role model and source of inspiration.
As all those loved ones said their final goodbyes, it was acknowledged that Rebecca heard everything they were saying deep in her subconscious as she saw flashes of memorabilia that meant something to her throughout the years along with visions of characters in various moments in time.
When Beth thanked Rebecca for being a guiding force and showing her what it was like to be a mother, Rebecca saw her as both a teenager and a grown woman.
When Sophie said goodbye and mentioned that her love story with Kevin was a once-in-a-lifetime love much like Rebecca and Jack’s, Rebecca saw Kevin and Sophie when they were toddlers, teens, and adults.
Rebecca was lucky enough to be part of every single moment — the good and the bad. She was the bedrock of the family and had a fierce love and loyalty for her kids.
As she made her way through the train, there was also a sweet moment with Miguel, though, admittedly, it felt very brief particularly when you think about how much Rebecca meant to him. The man dedicated his whole life to taking care of her. She was his whole life, and while I know that he wasn’t her one true love, he was such an important person to her, so I wish there was a little bit more love for him.
However, Mandy Moore also sold that chapter in her character’s life as she displayed the emotions that come along with confusion, excitement, and fear all wrapped up into one.
Rebecca knew that her time was running out, and she was trying to make sense of it all while absorbing all that was being thrown her way. She was proud of what she accomplished yet sad that she was leaving it all behind.
There were a few side stories, including Deja’s pregnancy, and even one final mystery that magnificently tied it all together.
Deja informed Randall that he was going to be a “grandpappy,” and the magnitude of life vs. death of it all could be felt. They always say, as one life ends, another begins.
It was revealed that Deja was pregnant with Malik’s child, which allows their relationship to come full circle. I’m happy for those crazy-in-love kids.
However, the idea of one life ends, another begins was also underscored with the introduction of Marcus and his family.
We met Marcus and his family during a traumatic moment in their lives when a car crash landed him in the hospital.
It wasn’t immediately clear how Marcus’s story fit into the grand scheme of things but isn’t that always the case with This Is Us?
Eventually, we learned that Marcus’s father had a heart-to-heart with Jack Pearson on the night of the house fire — and as we know — moments prior to his death.
And even then, Jack had it in him to pass on some sound piece of advice — a motto about lemons that Marcus’s family lived by for all these years.
Two families going through absolute hell that were unknowingly connected on a cosmic level.
They weren’t much different from the Pearsons, except that Marcus survived while Jack died that night. A real “one lives while the other dies” kind of moment.
Another life quote also comes to mind at this moment: “everything happens for a reason.”
Jack’s death was a pivotal moment for the Pearson clan as it changed everything and shaped them into the people that we know today, but if the scales tipped and Marcus died instead of Jack, then the world would’ve never gotten groundbreaking research about Alzheimer’s disease.
Marcus, again unknowingly, went on to make great strides in eliminating and treating the disease that killed Rebecca.
Not everyone’s bad day is a bad day. There is balance and order. As William explained — if you look at the whole picture, you’ll see the beauty even in the sad moments.
And, of course, if we were to get really technical, Jack would’ve never wanted the doctor to save him over a young boy.
Rebecca’s subconscious kept telling William that she was “waiting for someone” throughout the episode, and it soon became clear that it wasn’t Jack. She knew, just like we did, that she would see her husband again. She was, however, waiting for Kate, who was on a 12-hour flight back from London after taking her music program for the blind international.
A mother just knows (kind of like Beth knew that Deja was pregnant before she even said anything), call it motherly intuition, so Rebecca held on until all three of her children were by her side.
As they said their final goodbyes, she acknowledged that she heard everything with one last hand squeeze.
Now, naturally, you were already balling your eyes out this whole time. And if you know anything about This Is Us, you knew that Rebecca’s reunion with Jack was going to be the final moment. When she finally saw her beloved husband, it would indicate her passing.
You braced yourself and it still hit so hard.
When Rebecca laid down and turned to face Jack in bed, I looooost it.
Then, she simply said “hey,” which is what the children told her to say when she finally saw him, and I was in shambles.
It was so pure, simple, and perfect because it’s what we all envision our final moments being. We’re all staring down that barrel hoping that our end will be as comforting as Rebecca’s.
We want to see the people that have passed on and we want them to guide us since they’ve already crossed over. And we want to reunite with our one true love.
Rebecca gets to rest easy knowing that she did everything she could for her kids and left them as capable adults with their own families to raise.
It was a beautiful end to a beautiful story.
And we’re not done. We have one final episode to say goodbye to the Pearson clan, so get your tissues ready!
- How nice is it to see all the kids now? Like Kevin’s children as preteens!
- Why did Kevin look older than everyone else? Sophie barely aged. Nicky still looked the same!
- Toby continues to be the show’s comedic relief by asking Rebecca, on her deathbed, if she liked him better than Phillip.
- There were so many good moments, but Joni Mitchell? Flawless touch. It was the soundtrack to Rebecca’s life because it led her to Jack.
What did you think of the episode?
This Is Us Review – Family Meeting (6×16)
I don’t know how I thought that I was going to hold it together watching the final episodes of This Is Us, but the storytelling does not allow for there to be a single dry eye in the room.
This Is Us Season 6 Episode 16 leaned heavily into the emotional aspect of a mother’s love.
A mother’s love knows no bounds, especially when that mother is Rebecca Pearson.
Rebecca poured her heart and soul into raising the Big Three. She was a devoted mother who sacrificed everything, even when she didn’t exactly know what she was doing or how to do it.
As Randall put it, she was magic, so watching that magic fade away was uncomfortable and difficult.
It forced the Big Three to look at their mother in a different way; she was no longer the caregiver, she was now in need of their care.
The series has always been really great at showing parallels between then and now, but the plot device was especially useful in “Family Meeting” to underscore that the roles between a mother and her children were reversed.
In the same way that she fed them, clothed them, bathed them, and put them to sleep, they were now pitching it to feed her, clothe her, bathe her, and put her to sleep.
And it hit audiences in the feels not only because we’ve all come to love the Pearson clan and feel like we’re extended family members, but also because it’s a reality for each and every one of us because it’s life. And Dan Fogelman, the cast, and the crew have effortlessly, beautifully, and heartbreakingly captured it all through the lens of a single family.
As Randall, Kevin, and Kate debated what they should do with their mother now that Miguel was gone and her disease was worsening, it forced them to dig deep into themselves and into their childhood.
They couldn’t see eye-to-eye, which Rebecca anticipated when she appointed Kate as her guardian. And it’s a good thing she did.
Kevin and Randall both meant well, but they both had tunnel vision. They weren’t actually seeing the situation, and therefore, they weren’t seeing Rebecca — the person she is now.
Kate was silent throughout much of the meeting. She took a step back to reflect. She connected with her mother. She reminded them to actually look at their mother, see her in this fragile state, and be with her.
Admittedly, the scene of Randall and Kevin brushing their mother’s hair and lotioning her hands gutted me. There is such a pure love between all of them that just makes up for all the bad moments.
It was also such a raw moment that brought things full circle and reminded just how fleeting time is.
Eventually, Kevin presented the only logical solution to their dilemma that allowed Rebecca’s wishes to be fulfilled. She would live out her days in the cabin surrounded by family and none of her children would be forced to make their lives “smaller” because of it.
Kevin may have been a troublemaker for much of his life, and it took him a while to figure things out, but he was definitely on the right path by wanting to give Rebecca those “lazy Sundays.”
What made Rebecca such a great mother is that she loved her family — every single member of it.
What was supposed to be “one baby” ended up being three, and eventually, a whole clan of Pearson’s waiting to lend a hand to take care of the matriarch. It was, as the title noted, an actual “family meeting.”
When Kevin presented his plan for Rebecca, it was a definite moment where he was proving that he had finally grown up.
He wasn’t doing it alone either because Sophie, a nurse, was on-board, along with Madison, Elijah, and the twins, who would move to the East Coast to be closer to their families. And Nicky and Edie lived at the cabin as well, which meant that Rebecca would be surrounded by the family she created with Jack. A family that stemmed from one moment at the bathroom in Froggy’s.
Rebecca was always at the center of the family, so it was fitting that taking care of her seemed to be what brought everyone together for years to come.
Mandy Moore has done an outstanding job as Rebecca in every phase of her life; someone needs to give that woman an Emmy for her work.
The supporting cast, however, are the Big Three’s better halves. It’s not just a saying, it’s fact.
Beth has been part of the family for so long that she knows exactly when to make a break for it. She knows that she doesn’t meddle with Big Three business. She knows her husband so well, she knows exactly what he’s thinking and what he’s saying.
Sophie has been around for nearly as long — with some gaps in between — so she was perfect at channeling her inner-Kevin in the situation.
And while Phillip made a good point that they were making jokes while the Big Three dealt with the weight of making a decision about their mother’s soul-crushing disease, he also hasn’t experienced the ups-and-downs that come with being a Pearson so he doesn’t quite get that lightening the mood is absolutely necessary.
Sophie and Beth were the comedic relief in what would have otherwise been a very dark and depressing episode. They symbolize the people in your life who cope with bad situations by cracking jokes.
Toby was also a light in the darkness when he cracked a joke about getting back together after reminding Kate to stay confident while dealing with her brothers and their big personalities.
I love that Kate turned to both Toby and Phillip to get advice about her decision. She may have been a “late bloomer,” but she’s truly bloomed into her own and has some really great people in her life.
As the train heads towards the final two episodes of This Is Us, there’s no delaying the inevitable — Rebecca’s death.
I always thought that Jack’s death was going to be the one that hit the hardest, and while Miguel’s was a close second, it’s Rebecca’s passing that is going to have us all picking up the pieces for a very long time.
What did you think of the episode?
Did you like that The Big Three showed a level of maturity when making this big decision about their mother’s future? Were you glad to see the rest of the family equally involved in the decision-making process?
And how are you preparing for the final episodes?
This Is Us Review – Miguel Story… Finally! (6×15)
Miguel finally got his time to shine!
To be quite honest, Miguel deserved so much more than a single episode to honor his life, but at the very least, he got that.
On This Is Us Season 6 Episode 15, Miguel was acknowledged, seen, and loved.
We saw him as a child when his family uprooted his life to the U.S. We saw him navigate the complexities of being an immigrant by applying to jobs using both his real name and an English name. We saw him try to make something of himself and embrace where his path led.
We saw him fall in love with Shelly and have a beautiful life. And we saw that life take a dark turn as one late night led to another and eventually, to the demise of his family.
We saw him grapple with Jack’s death, get closer to Rebecca, and then move to Houston to start over. We saw him isolated and lonely as he struggled to maintain a relationship with his kids, who hated him and sided with their other, and his own father, who sadly passed away before they could ever find closure.
We saw him reconnect with Rebecca and genuinely smile for the first time in a while. We saw their first date after eight years apart — Rebecca made the first move.
We saw them broach the topic of Jack and what he would think about their romance, and like much of the audience, the consensus among them was that Jack would want what’s best for them. He’d want them to be happy.
We saw Miguel and Rebecca definitely not “ease into” breaking the news about their relationship to the kids.
We also saw Miguel take care of Rebecca, often putting her needs ahead of his own and neglecting his own health.
His mother, who dedicated her life to taking care of her disabled sister Gabi, once told him that love is unconditional and he seemed to have taken it to heart.
He wanted to be there for Rebecca every step of the way. And he was too proud to call it quits when the going got tough because he made a promise to her.
I love that the Big Three stepped in when they realized that Miguel could no longer shoulder the responsibility of being Rebecca’s caregiver.
It was sweet that he wanted to be, but after the fall in the snow which really hurt his back, it was clear that they overlooked the glaring fact that Miguel was aging right alongside his vibrant wife.
Rebecca’s sickness took precedence, but there was no denying that Miguel had a hard life where he wasn’t exactly seen.
The Big Three finally saw him and understood his needs as well.
Most of all, they finally acknowledged that they loved him and appreciated that he was part of the family. It was beautiful to see because Miguel has always been such an outsider in the family. He was a trooper about it, but that doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt someday.
Also, props to Beth for knowing that Migs’ was endgame. She’s good.
By about the midway point of the episode, it was clear that Miguel’s time was coming to an end much sooner than Rebecca’s.
And that’s the thing about a disease like Alzheimer’s — it’s a gut punch day in and day out, but it also takes its time sometimes.
Someone with Alzheimer’s can outlive someone with, let’s say, a heart condition, which it seems Miguel had.
I have to give props to Kevin for stepping up and reaching out to Miguel’s son in hopes of encouraging him not to squander this final goodbye and leave things unfinished.
Not being able to say goodbye to Jack has affected Kevin immensely, so it was big of him to recognize that and reach out to the son, even if was to put the ball in his court.
He was receptive, thankfully, and Miguel got to enjoy a holiday or two with his kids, steps kids, grandkids, and step grandkids by his side.
There’s nothing more you could really ask for.
Kevin was also the one who opposed Miguel’s relationship with Rebecca the most. As the sensitive kid who was wholly devoted to his father, it makes sense. And though it took him years to warm up to the idea, I’m glad he finally did. He was a a huge source of support in Miguel’s final years, and that had to have meant the world.
And eventually, Miguel passed away. I’d like to think that he reconnected with Jack Pearson somewhere in heaven and they are both looking over Rebecca.
The symbolism of the tree that they planted together was deep and beautiful — just like their life together.
Miguel never wanted to leave Rebecca’s side, and he never would have willingly. The episode also confirms that the reason Miguel isn’t by Rebecca’s deathbed is that he died years prior.
The episode was an incredible run-through of a man’s life, and in a way, it’s almost as fast and fleeting as life itself. One minute you’re a kid playing ball with your whole life ahead of you, the next minute you’re staring down at a life lived and chock full of memories — both good and bad. They all mold together to shape the person you are today. And Miguel? He was a character who was flawed, but he tried his damn best. And he loved with every single ounce of his being.
We finally, finally, finally got to know his story, and it was worth the wait.
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