In the aftermath of the horrible Thanksgiving dinner, Randall, Kate and Kevin go up to the family cabin one last time before their mother sells it.
Being outdoors is supposed to help Randall calm down after just finding out that his mother knew his birth father since he was born but refused to tell him. And oh does Randall calm down. He accidentally drinks some of Ash’s mushroom juice and starts tripping. Usually, drugs are bad but in this case, they led Randall on his own sort of Christmas Carol, where he was scrooge, upset with his mom and his late father is the ghost of Christmas past.
Randall’s anger is understandable – Rebecca knew how much finding his birth parents meant to him as a boy and withheld that information. However, Jack is here to show Randall just how good he had it and how hard all of this was for Rebecca. She wasn’t just holding all of this back to be mean – as a mother she had her reasons. Fist off, William gave him away because he was a drug addict. No mother is willing to let her child around a drug addict. When she visited him again 9-years later he was clean and too eager to meet his son. She worried that he’d try to take him back or worse, that Randall would like him better than his real parents.
And while she definitely considered the option of letting them meet, she opted against it when they finally took Randall to karate class so he could have black males to look up to. Part of the exercise consisted of Jack doing push-ups with Randall on his back as a sign that he would always be there for his son, lead him and pick him up despite the pain. Then, a community of other father’s did the same for Randall. He had everything he needed and a father who would give it all to him. If you ask me, that’s pretty bold and it shows just how much she loved her children, every single one of them.
Randall finally forgave his mother, coming to tell her that he understood how hard it must have been to be alone in this secret. But forgiving isn’t forgetting and Randall couldn’t bare to give her a hug, instead saying he’ll see her at Christmas.
And while Randall was tripping on shrooms, the cabin was filled with drama. First off Kevin invited Olivia to what was supposed to be family day and Kate did not like that. Olivia, being the entitled brat that she is, brought Ash and Sloane. Did we mention Ash is her ex? Because he is. Since Kevin likes her so much, he tried to brush it all off but the pompous attitudes drew a wedge between him and his sister.
After seeing Ash and Olivia get a little too close for comfort as they made fun of Kate when she was a preteen, he had enough. Kevin called out Liv for being fake and hiding behind her facade and never experiencing anything real. Of course she left with tears in her eyes but really, someone had to stand up to her. I thought their Thanksgiving kiss would change things but she’s just a disturbed individual who let a great guy go. The next morning we found Kevin in bed with Sloane, the playwright and from the previews, it looks like she’s the one.
Meanwhile Kate fessed up to Liv being right about one thing – she’s scared to death of the surgery. If you recall, at the end of that twisted, messed up dinner, Kate announced she was going to get gastric bypass surgery. Kevin tried to convince her that it was too dangerous but she knew she couldn’t let the fear get in the way – this was her last change at leading the life she’s always wanted. And really, it does mean a lot to her considering she broke up with Toby. I’m honestly not even surprised he’s been ignoring her calls. I like Kate, I sympathize with Kate but sometimes, she needs to get it together.
Is there ever an episode that doesn’t make you cry? This week, it was literally seeing Jack speaking to his present day son but still looking like he did when the kids were 9. I dare say, does this mean Jack died when he was young since that’s how Randall remembers him in his dream state?
This Is Us Review – Kevin and Randall Tackle the Ugly Stuff (5×13)
Kevin and Randall finally found “brotherly love” after all these years, but it didn’t come easily.
The duo tackled the elephant in the room — their explosive fight during which plenty of hurtful words were exchanged — on This Is Us Season 5 Episode 13.
As the two worked towards making amends, they aired out all the “ugly stuff” and it got pretty heated in certain moments.
The episode allowed audiences to see their different perspectives on the same situation with the key takeaway being: You just don’t see it the way I do.
But that doesn’t necessarily mean either of their experiences was wrong, they’re just different.
Kevin kicked things off with a bit of a half-assed, scripted apology, which Randall compared to a “rehearsed monologue.” Throughout it, he barely took any of the blame for his role in how “othered” he made Randall feel throughout the years when all he wanted to do was blend in.
While it was great that Kevin acknowledged that he should have done more to combat the racism Randall faced from people like his prom date’s father, he didn’t actually own up to his actions.
Throughout a series of flashbacks, which also included new actors playing the boys in the past (or at least I believe they’re new since I don’t recall seeing them before), we see Randall and Kevin’s relationship unfold through the years.
As toddlers, Jack takes them on a “boys weekend” to a live-taping of Mr. Rogers where Kevin becomes jealous of Randall’s “special treatment.” During their teenage years, Kevin gives Randall a fake I.D. of a “Black man” and tells him it’ll work cause he’s Black.
During the present, Randall recalls all of these moments, most of which were subconscious on Kevin’s part, to inform his brother that he always felt singled out because of his Blackness. Kevin would make fun of him for not knowing rap songs, call him Carlton, and make other racially charged comments that he thought were innocent and funny.
As Randall put it, Kevin’s black blindspots showed how wilfully in the dark he was, which hurt more than someone doing it purposefully and with malice.
Kevin doesn’t admit his fault initially, but eventually, he realizes that his jealousy of Randall was directly associated with his Blackness.
Kevin also called out Randall for being ungrateful about being adopted into a caring and loving family, but again, Randall didn’t harbor any resentment towards the Pearsons.
Instead, he opened up about his internal struggle of always wanting to find his birth parents, making up his Ghost Kingdom where the Black weatherman was his dad and the mail carrier was his mom, and also appreciating the life he was handed thanks to Rebecca and Jack.
It was a condensed glimpse of Randall’s journey that fans have been seeing unfold throughout the season.
There’s nothing wrong with Randall dreaming about what could have been if the events of his birth were slightly altered, while still being grateful for what could’ve been.
It’s an inner turmoil Randall has dealt with his whole life. He even admitted to feeling so guilty about his Ghost Kingdoms because of how great his real family was, so it’s not surprising that he’s tired of people telling him how he should feel about it.
Randall also apologized for always making Kevin feel “less than,” which included an apology for the cheap shot comment of Jack being ashamed of him.
While both of the guys will continue to see things through their own lenses, they’ve at least dipped their toes into each other’s perspectives for a moment.
With everything laid out on the table, a once-fractured brotherly bond is starting to rebuild.
There was nothing groundbreaking about the episode, but the breakthrough for Kevin and Randall was nice to see.
They’re finally starting to hold each other accountable for their actions that have spanned decades instead of bottling it up inside and resenting each other.
It takes true love and respect to have conversations this real and raw. Despite their flaws and quibbles, Randall and Kevin have always had each other’s backs, so I’m glad they’re back on track!
Plus, it might be the most honest and transparent conversation Randall has ever had with anyone in the Pearson family! That’s progress.
What did you think of the episode? Let us know in the comments below!
This Is Us Review – Manny Put a Ring On It (5×12)
There were plenty of great heart-to-heart’s on This Is Us Season 5 Episode 12.
The series brilliantly touches on all those feelings and emotions buried deep within us while simultaneously having everything come full circle in all the various timelines.
An episode where character and plot development is achieved solely through words is difficult, but “Both Things Can Be True” did a magnificent job. There weren’t any jaw-dropping moments or cliffhangers — everything was fueled by a basic human experience.
As Kevin and Madison were planning their wedding in the present-day timeline, Jack was planning on proposing to Rebecca in the past.
Miguel was involved in the planning of both events as Jack’s best friend and currently, Kevin’s step-dad aka Rebecca’s husband.
While we’ve all accepted Miguel’s role in the Pearsons’ life, it wasn’t an easy pill for Nicky to swallow. As they teamed up for rehearsal dinner planning, Nicky made a few tasteless and backhanded comments towards Miguel that were just plain ugly.
Now, we know Nicky’s a tough cookie and can be quite cynical, but it was still uncalled for and awkward. Most importantly, Miguel didn’t deserve it. He’s been treated like the show’s villain for far too long when he’s only ever sacrificed everything for this family!
Eventually, Miguel stood up for himself and explained that the only person that he owes an explanation is the one man he can’t give it to. And while we won’t ever know what Jack would have said about Miguel marrying Rebecca, I think it’s safe to say that he would’ve been grateful that someone stepped in to take care of his wife and kids upon his death.
Miguel was there to help Rebecca through her grief and now, he’s there as she deals with new struggles surrounding the early stages of Alzheimer’s. In a way, he’s kept Jack alive for Rebecca, and, in turn, Rebecca has kept Jack alive for Miguel.
Miguel has been there through everything as we saw him help Jack plan the perfect proposal for Rebecca. The same energy he had towards Nicky he also had towards Rebecca’s father in the past, who finally returned Jack’s calls and told him he’d “tolerate” the union.
We all need a friend like Miguel, who vouched for Jack’s character and made sure Rebecca’s dad knew that she was lucky to find a guy like Jack Pearson. Jack puts all the other men to shame, so tell ’em, Miguel.
Nicky’s actions were a result of his jealousy as he felt that Miguel replaced him in Jack’s life, but Miguel always knew that Jack wanted his brother around for the big day. While that never happened, it’s heartwarming that they are able to be there for Jack’s son.
Another unexpected heart-to-heart happened between Toby and Madison. Toby may be struggling with this whole “stay-at-home” dad thing, but I’m digging his new role, especially if it means we get more screentime bonding between these two.
Toby and Madison were both bottling up things from their partners. Madison didn’t want to get married at some luxurious venue that Kevin and his publicist dreamt up, while Toby wasn’t loving staying home with the kids and not having a full-time job.
Madison came around and told Kevin the truth, and I love how receptive he was to her concerns. Kevin really just wants to make Madison happy, and if that means they get married at a garden that reminds her of her trip to Japan, so be it.
In fact, seeing all of Kevin’s exes see the big engagement news in the tabloids and smile shows that he’s made a positive impact on all of them despite making a few missteps here and there. You can’t help but be happy that Kevin found “the one” and settled down!
Toby, on the other hand, didn’t confront his feelings head-on or tell Kate the truth likely because he saw how happy she was after her first day helping blind children discover their love of music. It says a lot about Toby as he’s willing to put his happiness on hold for Kate, but I hope it doesn’t lead to any resentment.
Both of them deserve to pursue their dreams, and he should be able to talk to her about it without thinking he’s going to strip her of her happiness.
However, it’s nice to see Kate finally have something for herself. We’ve seen her struggle with finding a fulfilling career path for so long, so this is a welcome change of pace.
Her anxieties about leaving behind two young children and her husband were also warranted and showcase the struggle many working moms encounter upon returning to the workforce.
Philip was difficult to deal with and didn’t show any grace towards Kate’s situation, which is also all too common in the workplace, but in a way, I’m glad that Kate was held to a higher standard and proved that she was the right fit for the job despite all of her internal battles.
Once Philip finally accepts that Kate is his new co-worker and good at her job, I think they’ll get along fairly well!
It’s just as important to show Kate’s struggle of going back to work as it is to show Toby’s struggle of staying at home. Stay-at-home dads and working moms are much more commonplace these days, and the feelings they have are valid.
Randall attended a transracial therapy group, and though he didn’t share his story, he connected with other people’s experiences.
He seemed to particularly connect with the woman who revealed that she wished that she was never adopted, and that pains me.
With those feelings surfacing for Randall, I’m concerned about his big talk with Kevin that’s supposed to clear the air between them.
It’s one thing for Randall to share his experiences about being adopted into a white family and sharing his experiences of finding his birth parents, but I don’t think Kevin would take it lightly if he heard that Randall wished he was never a Pearson in the first place.
I truly hope it doesn’t take that route because things may get messy.
However, it’s also illuminating to explore all emotions and feelings adopted children have faced and the guilt they’ve felt for wanting to know where they come from without hurting those who have been there for them.
It’s a tricky line to walk, but again, it’s important that these stories get told! The series has done an incredible job with Randall’s adoption storyline as it’s so layered and filled with opportunities to dig deeper and explore the character.
And lastly, Beth was trying her best to be there and accepting of Tess when she invited Alex over.
Using the proper pronouns was the least of her worries, though.
Beth didn’t realize just how affected she was by Tess’s relationship until she was called out on it.
It wasn’t right of Tess to call her mom a psycho, so I’m glad Beth nipped that behavior immediately, but she also realized that she needed to adjust to the new reality instead of the one she has envisioned for her daughter.
It’s an important step for both of them, and though Tess may have felt hurt and alienated, Beth is doing her best to be there for her and support her in every way that she can.
We know Beth’s heart, and we know that it had nothing to do with Tess.
But the open-door policy should apply just as much to Tess and Alex as it does to Deja and Malik. It’s only fair.
Beth’s exploration of her subconscious feelings also led to an important conversation with her own mother.
Their situation may be different, but Beth is realizing that her mother also struggled with letting go and adjusting to her daughter’s chosen lifestyle, which is what caused a rift between them in the first place.
It’s nice to see these mothers and daughters be vulnerable and honest as they make up for lost time and right the wrongs of the past.
Being a mom is hard, and you don’t realize just how difficult the task is until you become a mother yourself.
What did you think of the episode?
What was your favorite moment? Let us know in the comments below!
This Is Us Review – Family Dinners (5×10)
Dinner is never really just dinner, is it?
When you’re not arguing about politics, you’re getting into it about money woes and feeling judged by your mother, who has overstayed her welcome.
Three dinners took place during the course of This Is Us Season 5 Episode 10, and none of them went off without a hitch.
In the past, Jack attended a dinner with Miguel and the big wigs at his firm in hopes of getting a promotion to support his family of three newborns. Unfortunately, the evening didn’t go as planned and instead of being treated to a meal and drinks, he ended up having to pay the $230 tab after throwing his car down in a credit card roulette.
Look, $230 nowadays is a lot for one person with expenses to put down, but in those days, it was a fortune.
My advice for next time? Splitsies four ways and everyone pays for what they ordered!
While the Pearson family didn’t come from money, the fact that the children never noticed or never felt the stress of not having enough money just speaks to how great Rebecca and Jack were as parents.
And it informed Kate and Kevin’s experiences in the present-day as the former found her family struggling financially after Toby was laid off due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
I love that This Is Us is showcasing the struggles plenty of Americans are going through right now.
Not everyone is as fortunate as Kevin to get paid loads of money for a gig, but it also doesn’t mean that they are less-than. Kevin’s intentions were pure, I know. He genuinely wanted to be there for his family and help his brother out during a tough time, but it’s understandable that it would make Toby feel inadequate and like he can’t take care of his family.
Toby, much like so many others who are now unemployed, lost his job and has been stuck in the vicious cycle of remote and impersonal interviews. Getting a job nowadays is difficult, and it’s absolutely not a reflection of the person or their skill; it’s just a reality.
He’ll land on his feet eventually, but it’s great for a show to tackle the very real situation that’s affecting so many families.
While Toby didn’t want things to fall onto Kate, I think it’s great that she’s found a job that she wants to pursue. Working mothers are the backbone of America, and there’s no shame in having her be the breadwinner for a bit while he gets back on his feet.
Toby has always supported Kate, and it’s awesome that she wants to return the favor.
Plus, the job as a teaching assistant at Jack’s music school seems like the perfect fit for Kate. She’s always wanted to find something that she could call her own, and it looks like things are finally falling into place.
You know what they say — when one door closes, another opens, even if it might not be exactly what Toby envisioned.
Kevin seems to be thriving in his dad role, but according to the last few episodes, he kind of burned a few bridges with the directors of his latest film.
Is this going to take a toll on his career? He may have all the funds to have a nanny and dream up a Malibu compound now, but if he’s leaving acting behind, what does that truly mean for the future?
Nicky’s back… and the fact that he braved his first flight to come and visit Kevin and his children is just the sweetest thing.
Kevin’s always been a family man, and it’s awesome that he’ll be able to share his new bundles of joy with the man that’s the closest connection to his dad!
As for Randall and Beth’s dinner, well, their house is chaotic in the best possible way.
Beth thought her mom was judging her based on how her kids behaved, but it was actually Beth who was casting the judgment on herself.
Her mother was just happy to be a part of the action.
Sometimes, as children, we always think we’re not living up to our mother’s expectations, but our mothers just want to spend some quality time with the family.
When Beth realized that her mother decided to extend her stay because she was lonely at home, she invited her to stay with them indefinitely.
For audiences, it’s a plus because Phylicia Rashad is a blessing and a half. But Beth probably should’ve run it by Randall first.
Though, she did have a fair point that she’s always accomodating when it comes to his family. She can have this moment!
Deja and Randall’s bond is adorable. They’ve been through the highs and lows together, but it’s sweet to see her acknowledge that Randall is the only person who has ever been #TeamDeja from the beginning.
I’m glad she didn’t hold a grudge against him for helping Malik though because Malik realized the same thing Deja did — Randall is a stand-up guy who gives great advice.
He’s become a father figure to them both, and his advice carries more weight as he’s someone who grew up without knowing his birth parents.
At the end of the day, there’s something to be said for allowing your child to get to know their birth mother. However, Malik’s reservations are valid as Jennifer and her family weren’t supportive and didn’t want to be in this child’s life at first. He also has to be careful that allowing her back into his child’s life doesn’t do more harm than good.
Obviously, everyone deserves a second chance, but not everyone makes the most of that second chance, so I wouldn’t let her fully in just yet.
I also wonder if it’ll strain Deja and Malik’s relationship moving forward. They’re only 15, so the chances of them making it till the end (or at the very least those flash-forward episodes) are slim, but it’s a sweet sentiment.
The Pearson clan has gotten significantly bigger as everyone embraces their new chapters with their respective families, but Jack and Rebecca’s influence continues as they now tackle the parental roles with the same grace and love.
What did you think of the episode? Let us know in the comments below!
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